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The Murdaugh family’s former “Moselle” estate in Colleton County, South Carolina

For nearly two years, many Americans have been fascinated by the various tragedies surrounding the affluent and politically powerful Murdaugh family of South Carolina.  The true-life drama began unfolding in June of 2021, when attorney Alex Murdaugh claims he arrived at his massive estate to find his wife, Maggie, and youngest son, Paul, shot to death alongside some dog kennels.  On March 2, 2023, a jury convicted Murdaugh of murdering Maggie and Paul; supposedly in a perverted effort to conceal his own fiduciary shenanigans, which was amplified by his addiction to opioids.

But Murdaugh’s troubles aren’t over yet.  Local police are now investigating both the 2018 death of the family’s housekeeper at the Murdaugh home and the 2015 death of a young man who supposedly had a connection to Murdaugh’s oldest son, Buster.  At the time of his death, Paul Murdaugh was facing criminal charges for the 2019 boating death of a young woman.  And now, the suspicious death of one of Alex Murdaugh’s ancestors in 1940 has come to light.

If a novice screenwriter had presented this project to a film or television producer, they’d be laughed back into obscurity.

What had once been a prominent legal dynasty now lies in the tatters of arrogance and greed.  Once highly revered in South Carolina, the Murdaugh family name has become synonymous with fraud and murder.  If anything, it’s testament to what happens when people grow too comfortable with their wealth and power and assume nothing and no one can undermine that status.

Alex Murdaugh admitted he lied to investigators about the events of June 7, 2021 – the night his wife and younger son were murdered.  But his admission came only after savvy investigators used technology to confirm his whereabouts.  People seem to keep forgetting cell phones aren’t always their best friend.  And Murdaugh also apparently forgot that paper trails are equally revealing.  Damn, it’s getting so hard for criminals to make a living in the 21st century!

But one curiously tragic element is that at least three strange deaths have been linked to the Murdaugh family.

Stephen Smith

Everyone who knew and loved Stephen Smith had only the best things to say about him.  Openly queer in a bastion of right-wing conservatism, Stephen still maintained a bright outlook on his life.  After graduating high school, he began attending nursing school with the ultimate goal of becoming a doctor.  But his future came to a brutal end when he turned up dead on a remote road in Hampton County, South Carolina on July 8, 2015.  Local police ultimately concluded he was the victim of a hit-and-run – despite that his body displayed no signs of blunt force trauma (although his head showed signs that he had been struck); no shards of vehicle glass or other broken items lay nearby; and Stephen’s wallet and cell phone sat in his car some distance down the road.  Oddly Alex Murdaugh arrived on the scene within hours of the discovery of Stephen’s body.  Understand Murdaugh wasn’t a law enforcement official; he was an attorney with a local law firm that had a long history of handling wrongful death and injury cases.  Why he became involved with the Smith death wouldn’t become obvious until some time later.

Stephen Smith’s parents weren’t satisfied with the results of the investigation, so they contacted the state police agency, the South Carolina Law Enforcement Division (SLED).  SLED’s inquiry didn’t reveal much more, but amidst interviews with anyone and everyone who knew Stephen, one name kept coming up: Murdaugh.  Stephen’s twin sister, Stephanie, states that her brother had suddenly become secretive in the weeks preceding his death and that he was involved with a member of a prominent local family.  Stephen never called out anyone’s name, but Stephanie notes that Alex Murdaugh’s oldest son, Buster, might have had some connection to Stephen.  They all graduated from the same high school in 2014.  Stephen and Stephanie weren’t part of the “cool” crowd during those days, while Buster (mainly because of his family’s wealth) definitely was.  The exact relationship between Stephen Smith and Buster Murdaugh remains unknown, but law enforcement has reopened the investigation into Smith’s death.  It wouldn’t have happened, though, without the murders of Maggie and Paul Murdaugh.

Gloria Satterfield

Gloria Satterfield was a simple, working woman.  Like most people of her stature, she didn’t ask for much beside respect and consideration.  Gloria worked for Alex and Maggie Murdaugh for some 20 years before her untimely death in 2018.  She essentially helped raise Buster and Paul Murdaugh.  It’s such a classic element of the wealthy – they seem to be too busy to raise their own progeny.  In February of 2018, Gloria fell at the Murdaugh home and incurred a serious head injury.  The Murdaughs later claimed she tripped over one of the family’s dogs.  But upon listening to the 911 call, there are no sounds of dogs in the background.  And neither Maggie nor Paul – both of whom spoke to the 911 operator – mentioned dogs during the call.

Five months later Paul was involved in a vehicle wreck, along with his girlfriend, Morgan Doughty.  According to Morgan, Paul – then age 19 – had consumed an excessive amount of beer, and the truck in which they were riding was loaded with empty beer cans and even a number of firearms.  They apparently got into an argument, as Paul sped along a roadway; whereupon he lost control of the vehicle, which landed on the passenger side.  After they both climbed out, Morgan recounts, she attempted to call 911, but she says Paul slapped her phone out of her hand.  He then called his parents who arrived with his Uncle Randy, Alex’s younger brother.  As Morgan watched, the Murdaughs cleared the area and the truck of both the beer cans and the guns before calling emergency services.  She says they ordered her to remain silent.  And she did.  She obviously had no choice.

Mallory Beach

Mallory Beach was 19 in February of 2019 and most certainly didn’t think her life would end any time soon.  No one that age does.  But Mallory’s life came to an especially brutal end on February 24, 2019, when the boat she was riding in slammed into a dock piling.  Paul Murdaugh was driving the vessel, which belonged to his father.  He was also highly intoxicated.  Paul and most everyone else aboard were flung into the dark waters.  Mallory was the only one who didn’t surface.  Her body was discovered several days later; she was the only fatality.

After everyone in the boat was transported to a local hospital, a number of medical staff noted Paul Murdaugh’s behavior changed dramatically; he allegedly became more belligerent and refused to provide blood and urine samples.  While at the hospital, Paul called his paternal grandfather who then arrived with Alex.  The older Murdaugh men refused to allow hospital staff to take the requested blood and urine samples, but their interference in the fiasco didn’t end there.  As the other boat crash survivors recounted later, the duo visited all of them in their respective rooms and suggested they remain quiet about the night’s events.  But Alex went further and asked one of the survivors – a long-time close friend of Paul – to confess to police that he had been driving the boat at the time of the accident.  The young man – who had suffered a broken jaw – refused.

One of the most egregious aspects of the boat crash is that Paul Murdaugh wasn’t brought before a court to face a variety of charges until early 2021.  And, instead of being subjected to the normal protocol of mug shots and fingerprinting, Paul was allowed to stand against a wall in the hallway and have his official mug taken with a cell phone.  Then a fingerprint kit was brought into the courtroom – all done obviously done to accommodate an already pampered young man.  The Beach family sued the Murdaughs for wrongful death, and earlier this year a judge approved a settlement between the two families.

After the murders of Maggie and Paul, Alex Murdaugh loudly claimed it was retribution for the boat crash; that some angry local – perhaps tired of the slow pace of justice – decided to enact justice on their own.  No one seems to believe him.  At his sentencing, Judge Clifton Newman had an interesting response to the defendant’s claims that his opioid addiction led to his erratic behavior.  “And it might not have been you,” Newman stated. “It might have been the monster you become when you take 15, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 opioid pills, and maybe you become another person. I have seen that before.  The person standing before me was not the person who committed the crime, though it is the same individual.  We’ll leave that at that.”

The drama has not ceased.  Investigations into the deaths of Stephen Smith and Gloria Satterfield continue, as their respective families demand the bodies be exhumed.

Nothing can be made right about all of this, but even a cursory glance at the scope of this case proves that the Murdaugh family name has been sullied – perhaps forever.  Entire empires have crumbled because of their leaders’ arrogance and greed.  So have family dynasties.  The Murdaughs are just the latest.

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May 2023 Literary Calendar

Events in the month of May for writers and readers

Get Caught Reading Month

Short Story Month

  • May 1 – American Cheese Month; Arthritis Awareness Month; Asian American and Pacific Islander Month; Be Kind to Animals Month; Better Sleep Month; Couple Appreciation Day; Global Love Day; Indian Heritage Month; Jewish American Heritage Month; Labor History Month; May Day; Mental Health Awareness Month; Military Appreciation Month; Mother Goose Day; National Allergy and Asthma Awareness Month; National Anxiety Month; National Loyalty Day; National Meditation Month; National Pet Month; Phone In Sick Day
  • May 1-7 – Hurricane Preparedness Week
  • May 2 – International Harry Potter Day; Poem on Your Pillow Day
  • May 2-8 – Children’s Book Week
  • May 3 – World Press Freedom Day
  • May 4 – Greenery Day; National Day of Reason (U.S.)
  • May 4-10 – Red Cross Week
  • May 5 – Nellie Bly’s Birthday; Cinco de Mayo (México); Europe Day; National Cartoonists Day; National Silence the Shame (about mental illness) Day; National Space Day
  • May 6 – Sigmund Freud’s Birthday; Free Comic Book Day
  • May 6-12 – National Nurses Week
  • May 7 – Tchaikovsky’s Birthday; World Laughter Day
  • May 7-13 – National Pet Week
  • May 8 – Peter Benchley’s Birthday
  • May 9 – J.M. Barrie’s Birthday; Peter Pan Day
  • May 11 – Irving Berlin’s Birthday; Salvador Dali’s Birthday; Martha Graham’s Birthday; National Children’s Mental Health Awareness Day
  • May 12 – Limerick Day
  • May 14 – Mother’s Day (U.S.)
  • May 15-21 – Dementia Awareness Week
  • May 16 – Love a Tree Day
  • May 19 – Nora Ephron’s Birthday
  • May 20 – Eliza Doolittle Day; Flower Day
  • May 22 – Sir Arthur Conan Doyle’s Birthday; Sherlock Holmes Day
  • May 25 – Robert Ludlum’s Birthday
  • May 27 – Dashiell Hammett’s Birthday; Ian Fleming’s Birthday
  • May 29 – Memorial Day (U.S.)
  • May 30 – National Creativity Day
  • May 31 –Walt Whitman’s Birthday

Famous May Birthdays

Other May Events

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Damnit!  You Died and Didn’t Even Tell Me!

Over Easter weekend I learned that one of my closest long-time friends, David, died on April 4, at the age of 49.  He would have turned 50 on April 17.  I don’t know for certain, but I believe he’d succumbed to esophageal cancer.  I had spoken with him briefly last month when he told me he planned to visit a doctor.  He had trouble swallowing and – mostly shocking – weighed only 114 pounds at the time.  He later informed me that an X-ray showed his esophagus was bent and that his doctor had referred him to a gastroenterologist who referenced cancer.  That’s what I had thought, when he mentioned the initial X-ray findings.  The gastroenterologist wanted to rush him into surgery.  Afterwards I never heard from him again.  I had thought of calling him, when I decided to check that most ubiquitous of sources: Facebook.  That’s when I found out about his demise.

Damn!  And he didn’t have the decency to tell me.  You know…that’s kind of rude.

The news hit me especially hard because Easter weekend marked the first anniversary of the death of another close friend, Paul, who died after a year-long bout with liver cancer at the age of 55.  His death was considerably different in that I had been in constant contact with him and saw the end looming over the horizon.

I also saw the end with another friend, also named David, before his death in 1993.  That was the first time I’d actually lost a close friend to death, and it impacts me to this day.  People have always accused me of being too sensitive; in that I don’t often let things go.  That’s true to an extent.  I had a tendency to hold grudges.  But it’s tough to let go of the death of a close relative or friend.

David went quick, though.  According to one of his friends, the cancer was too advanced for doctors to do anything.  And I got mad again.  That’s just like a man!  Waited until the last fucking minute to take care of himself!  That’s so old school.  Men of my father’s generation did shit like that!  David was almost a whole decade younger than me.

Several years ago I watched a program on the lives of very old people; those who’d lived beyond 90 and how they managed to sustain themselves.  Aside from good genes and a positive outlook on life, they all seemed to have one pertinent thing in common: their ability to deal with the death of others around them.  As sad as it is to lose a loved one, we have to understand that it happens.  Some things may last forever, but no person can – at least not in this world.  Our capacity to accept that helps us move forward with our own lives.

So, as difficult as it’s been these past few weeks, I’ve had to accept David is gone.  My greatest consolation is that he’s not suffering anymore.

Good night, my friend.  I’ll miss you, but I’m glad you have begun your next journey in life.  As with everyone else I’ve lost, I hope to see you on the other side.

David in his natural element – with an animal

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Earth Day 2023

“The greatest threat to our planet is the belief that someone else will save it.”

Robert Swan

Earth Day 2023

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Sad

On April 4 New York officials arrested former President Donald Trump for paying a former adult film star $130,000 to keep quiet about an alleged tryst they had in 2006.  It’s actually more complicated than that.  And, in keeping with the appetite Americans have for the salacious antics of public personalities, there are more players in this game than a womanizing, tax-cheating businessman and a glamorized prostitute.

Politicians and porn stars seem to have a lot in common: they have no conscious and don’t care who they screw, as long as they get some kind of money and notoriety in the end.  And, for the record, I actually think more highly of porn stars.  I don’t know what prompted the “actress” known as Stormy Daniels (Stephanie Clifford) to find anything remotely attractive about Donald Trump.  She claims he was just exceptionally charming, which I think a lot of women say when they engage in such behavior.  Monica Lewinsky said the same about Bill Clinton.  Who really know and who really cares?

Trump’s real transgression involving Daniels – the one that landed him in a Manhattan courtroom – isn’t his sexual indiscretion or even the money he supposedly paid out to buy her silence.  It’s that he allegedly processed the payment through his campaign finances, as he desperately sought the Republican Party’s nomination for president in early 2016.  That’s illegal, if it did occur.  According to one of his closest confidants at the time, Michael Cohen, it did.  We know so much about the fiasco because Cohen was a Trump attorney who served as vice-president of the Trump organization.  In 2018 Cohen was found guilty of a number of monetary crimes, including campaign finance violations.  Afterwards he turned on Trump and declared that his former boss, indeed, paid Daniels to remain quiet.  Then news arose that Trump had an affair with another woman, Karen McDougal, an actress and former Playboy model – and that the real estate magnate had paid her to stay silent as well.  But wait!  It gets worst!  Yet another rumor has emerged that Trump had an affair with another, unnamed woman and that she bore a child as a result of their liaison.  This latter story comes from an admittedly dubious source – a doorman at Trump Tower in New York.

Writers for daytime dramas have composed shit like this for decades, and their viewers recognize the absurdity of it all, but still love to watch the shenanigans executed on screen.  When it happens in real life, though, observers react with awe.

Most of us, however, don’t react with shock or surprise – at least not people my age.  I’ve seen this type of histrionic morass play out in public most of my life.  I’m never really surprised when powerful people get caught up in their own personal machinations.  It’s almost laughable.

But, as I look at this mess involving Donald Trump, another word comes to mind: sad.  Trump is the first former U.S. president to be indicted for criminal behavior.  His supporters are screaming that this is all a liberal plot; quickly forgetting that conservatives tried to impeach Bill Clinton for lying about his own dalliance with a woman a quarter century ago.

Regardless this is all an embarrassment and a disgrace for a nation that has always prided itself on being the leader of the free world; a beacon for democracy.  This pathetic drama continues, but it’s truly disheartening.  The cesspool of American politics seemingly has no bottom.

Image: Jane Rosenberg

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Happy Easter 2023

“The real reason Easter is on a different day each year is because sometimes it’s difficult to remember which lie you told.”

Jimmy Carr

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