Events in the month of May for writers and readers
American Cheese Month
Arthritis Awareness Month
Asian American and Pacific Islander Month (U.S.)
Be Kind to Animals Month
Better Sleep Month
Get Caught Reading Month
Indian Heritage Month
Jewish American Heritage Month
Labor History Month
Mental Health Awareness Month
Military Appreciation Month
National Allergy and Asthma Awareness Month
National Anxiety Month
National Meditation Month
National Pet Month
Short Story Month
May 1 – Couple Appreciation Day; Free Comic Book Day (N. America); Global Love Day; May Day (Europe); Mother Goose Day; National Loyalty Day; National Space Day; Phone In Sick Day
May 2 – International Harry Potter Day
May 3 – World Laughter Day; World Press Freedom Day
May 3-9 – Hurricane Preparedness Week (U.S.)
May 4 – Greenery Day (Japan); National Day of Reason (U.S.)
May 4-10 – Children’s Book Week; Red Cross Week
May 5 – Nellie Bly’s Birthday; Cinco de Mayo (México); National Cartoonists Day; National Silence the Shame About Mental Illness Day; Poem on Your Pillow Day
“Two thousand years ago, Jesus is crucified. Three days later, he walks out of a cave and they celebrate with chocolate bunnies and marshmallow Peeps, and beautifully decorated eggs. I guess these were things Jesus loved as a child.” Billy Crystal
“Passover and Easter are the only Jewish and Christian holidays that move in sync, like the ice skating pairs we saw during the Winter Olympics.” Marvin Olasky
A statue of United Farm Workers union co-founder Cesar Chavez stands at Cesar Chavez Park at a Cesar Chavez Commemorative in Phoenix, Arizona. Photo by Erica Stapleton
People of Spanish ancestry have a long history here in the United States. Spaniards made the first permanent European settlement in what would become the U.S. and had reached the Pacific coast before the arrival of their English and French counterparts. Unlike the English and French, however, Spanish colonizers generally didn’t view the indigenous peoples of the Americas as obtuse savages.
Despite this extensive heritage, Hispanics have often been left out of American history and – as a result – we’ve had few heroic figures in mainstream literature and news. One noteworthy individual, however, is the late César Chavez.
Born in Arizona in 1927, Chavez joined his parents and other family members in one of the most strenuous of jobs: crop-picking. It’s an industry that’s inherently fickle and strenuous. It can also be unforgiving, especially during Chavez’s youth. His family moved frequently, barely surviving each year, and eventually settled in California. After a brief stint in the U.S. Navy, Chavez returned home and to the fields of various crops…where things hadn’t changed much. Sometime in the late 1950s Chavez’s frustration with the farming business metamorphosed into political action and, in 1960, he led a gallery of farmworkers in creating the National Farm Worker Association, which sought to improve working conditions for people who toiled in farming. They demanded higher pay and better working conditions. Most farmworkers were non-White, but regardless of race or ethnicity, all worked hard to feed American families, as they struggled to care for their own.
After his death in 1993, a number of communities across the Southeastern U.S. named, or renamed, schools and streets after Chavez. It was homage to a common man who understood the struggles of average working people – even if others didn’t understand or appreciate it.
One night around 1996, I was driving through East Dallas with a friend, when we passed an elementary school recently with Chavez’s name broadly displayed across the front.
“What do they teach there?!” my friend exclaimed, before adding something about picking fruits and vegetables.
In the midst of a busy urban thoroughfare, I literally slammed on the brakes of my truck and yelled back, “What the fuck that’s supposed to mean?!”
My friend is a little more than a decade older than me and was born and raised in what he and his sister called “LA” – Lower Alabama. He’s a true southerner who likes boiled peanuts and fried green tomatoes – two foods I’ve purposefully avoided. He’s also somewhat of a Confederate loyalist and would get annoyed when I said the Confederate Army were traitors to the United States.
“Now, you’re making fun of my heritage,” he once told me.
So I guess – with the Chavez vegetable quip – we were even.
One of the people who helped Chavez organize his movement was Dolores Huerta. A New México native, Huerta, like Chavez, had worked in the farming trade and personally witnessed the mistreatment of its workers.
Now – more than three decades after the death of Chavez – Huerta has turned against him. In a recent stunning admission, Huerta claims Chavez raped her twice in the 1960s; impregnating her both times. She carried each pregnancy to term and gave up the babies to other families. She says she didn’t come forward years earlier for a number of personal reasons; in part because no one openly discussed sexual assault at the time of the alleged offenses, but also because she didn’t want to undermine the mission of the farmworkers coalition. At the age of 95, Huerta really has nothing to lose.
Who’s going to call her a liar?
Now everything Chavez did has come under scrutiny. Almost overnight he has become the Bill Cosby of the Hispanic community – a man revered for decades as a leader and humanitarian whose reputation has come into question. The primary difference, of course, is that Chavez wasn’t an actor or a comedian and he’s now dead.
Last Tuesday, March 31, would have been Chavez’s 99th birthday. Communities across the Southwestern U.S. have been celebrating it as a venerable holiday. Many Hispanics have been demanding an official federal holiday (akin to Martin Luther King) be established to honor Chavez.
Recently Texas Governor Greg Abbott ordered the state NOT to recognize Chavez on March 31. It’s interesting – hypocritical actually – considering that Abbott and other Republican officials were reticent to disavow allegiance to Confederate soldiers – a group that wanted to divide the nation over the issue of slavery. Many conservatives argued vehemently against removing monuments to the Civil War Confederacy, but are now quick to obliterate anything honoring Chavez.
More than a quarter of the way into the 21st century, we’re still dealing with this shit.
So what to do now?
I’m publishing this essay on April 4, 2026 – the 58th anniversary of the assassination of Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. King had always asked people to be judged on the “content of their character”. That’s not just a bit of poetic verbiage. It’s actually a sensible practice.
Yet, how much character can overcome egregious behavior? Behavior that occurred years ago.
I simply don’t know. The chaos surrounding Chavez’s legacy has been set in motion and won’t die down anytime soon.
Jacqueline Susann’s 1973 novel “Once Is Not Enough” is filled with enough drama, heartbreak, romance, intrigue and sexual indiscretions to send any family into therapy for decades. The central character, January Wayne, returns home to New York City after being hospitalized in Switzerland for nearly three years. That part alone rivals the best (or worst) any Mexican telenovela can deliver. In many ways the world she left three years earlier hasn’t changed, but in most others, it’s radically different. As is befitting a Susann story, January encounters a plethora of strange figures: one of the world’s richest women; a vile magazine editor; a hyper-masculine novelist; and a physician with salaciously ulterior motives, among other cretins. Almost sounds like one of my old family gatherings!
To some extent “Once Is Not Enough” is a commentary on the myriad social upheavals in the U.S. at the time of its publication. Right now, though, I wonder if many Americans have been suffering from subtle amnesia – or are just innately sadistic.
A generation ago we had a president who launched an unexpected war upon a Middle East nation that – along with a slew of heavy tax breaks for the wealthiest citizens – culminated in the worst economic downturn in almost a century. George W. Bush used the horrors of the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks to justify an invasion of Iraq less than two years later. To date that fiasco has cost the U.S. an estimated USD 6 trillion. That’s just in hard U.S. dollars. But the cost in mental and physical health is immeasurable.
Now we’re at it again. The Trump Administration has attacked Iran – one of the U.S.’s most loathsome enemies. Until 1979, we had a cordial diplomatic relationship with Iranian leadership, including the late Mohammad Reza Pahlavi. He had risen to prominence in the immediate aftermath of World War II and guided Iran into something of a progressive new era.
But Pahlavi had also instituted a repressive dictatorship and exhibited an extravagant lifestyle for him, his family and others in the small elite class. His ardent efforts to Westernize and secularize Iran, along with depending strongly on the United States, alienated his own people and culminated in a student uprising that forced him and his family into exile. The same uprising ambushed the U.S. embassy in Tehran in November 1979 that led to holding several Americans hostage for over a year.
It was our first battle with radical Islam and it caught the U.S. completely off-guard. At the time the “Cold War” was still raging, and the Soviet Union remained the most serious foreign threat. Iran wasn’t on the radar of diplomatic instability.
Recently the Trump Administration invaded Venezuela to capture its president, Nicolás Maduro, who the world has denounced as an illegitimate leader. A global coalition of democratic states claims Maduro ascended to the Venezuelan presidency in January 2019 after a rigged election. Somehow, the 2000 and 2016 presidential elections in the U.S. come to mind whenever I hear the term “rigged election”.
Now Trump has set his sights on two more foes: Cuba and Colombia. Cuba has been on the American shit-list for over 60 years, and Colombia has a long history of political assassinations and drug trafficking. Bush had used the excuse of nuclear weaponry to invade Iraq, and even critics later admitted the country was better off without its brutal leader, Saddam Hussein. The world would be better off without many autocrats – including Trump.
But is it the duty of the U.S. to remove every such character?
We all know the adage that, when old men go to war, young men die. Right now, though, it seems when the billionaire class goes to war, the middle and lower classes die.
And here we are again. Once may not be enough in regards to love, sex and a good back rub. But one war is always one too many.
This is a recent post from fellow blogger and dog lover Amanda who, like me, has a passion for life, good food and animals. Anyone who’s followed me knows I have an intense love of dogs. It’ll be ten years this October since I lost my last dog, Wolfgang, a miniature schnauzer – who I actually believe was a miniature wolf! Life is always better with animals. Thank you, Amanda!
March 15 – Everything You Think Is Wrong Day; Ides of March
March 15-21 – World Folktales and Fables Week
March 16 – Everything You Do Is Right Day; Freedom of Information Day
March 17 – St. Patrick’s Day
March 19 – International Read to Me Day; Let’s Laugh Day
March 20 – First Day of Spring (Northern Hemisphere); First Day of Fall (Southern Hemisphere); Extraterrestrial Abductions Day; International Day of Happiness; World Storytelling Day