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AP Discourages Usage of “Homophobia,” “Ethnic Cleansing”

In an update to their style guide for reporters, the Associated Press officially announced they will cease listing “homophobia,” “ethnic cleansing” and other terms in its Stylebook.

The update reads, in part:

Phobia – An irrational, uncontrollable fear, often a form of mental illness. Examples: acrophobia, a fear of heights, and claustrophobia, a fear of being in small, enclosed spaces.  Do not use in political or social contexts: homophobia, Islamophobia.

“Ethnic cleansing is a euphemism for pretty violent activities; a phobia is a psychiatric or medical term for a severe mental disorder.  Those terms have been used quite a bit in the past, and we don’t feel that’s quite accurate,” says AP Deputy Standards Editor Dave Minthorn.

The AP makes no suggestions for replacement terms.

George Weinberg, who coined the word “homophobia” in his 1972 book, Society and the Healthy Homosexual, does not approve of banning the term.

“I just want to go on record as disagreeing with the AP’s decision not to use ‘homophobia,’ the word.  I am a psychologist and author who coined the word a long time ago.  It made all the difference to City Councils and other people I spoke to.  It encapsulates a whole point of view and of feeling.  It was a hard-won word, as you can imagine.  It brought me some death threats.  Is homophobia always based on fear?  I thought so and still think so.  Maybe envy in some cases.  But that’s a psychological question.  Is every snarling dog afraid?  Probably yes.  But here it shouldn’t matter.  We have no other word for what we’re talking about, and this one is well established.  We use ‘freelance’ for writers who don’t throw lances anymore and who want to get paid for their work.  Fowler even allows us to mix what he called dead metaphors.  It seems curious that this word is getting such scrutiny, while words like triskaidekaphobia (the fear of the number 13) hang around.”

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Fellow blogger “Travel Spirit” has compiled some great photos during her romp across the country in recent weeks, but this set really left me in awe. These are from a sand sculpting competition in Fort Myers Beach, Florida, where imaginations are allowed to run wild. Thanks, TS, for posting these!

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This year’s Fort Myers Beach Sand Sculpting Championship was amazing!  I’ve never attended a competition and it was exciting to see them up close.  Their site online said it started at 9:00am…so I arrived there about 8:45am…wanting to get early morning light for good photos.  Once there I found out it didn’t start until 10:00am…so I had an English muffin at the Holiday Inn (where the competition was) and took a walk on the beach…

There was a fence with black netting around the sculptures so you couldn’t see them…until you paid the $5.00 entrance fee.  Since I’m tall…I snuck one…

I was the first one through the entrance and was able to get some photos without people in them…

The event is for 10 days and began on Friday the 16th.  The judging took place on the 18th and I attended on Monday, the 19th.

This is the sculpture…

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Writer Philip Roth Is Frustrated – and Retires

After more than 6 decades of writing, Philip Roth has become weary of the frustrations and decided to stop.  “The struggle with writing is over,” he scribbled onto a Post-It note that he affixed to his computer.  Roth, who will turn 80 in March 2013, has penned some 31 books since 1959, when he published Goodbye, Columbus and Five Short Stories.  Apparently, he’s had enough – whatever that’s supposed to mean to a writer.

Roth actually made the decision to retire 2 years ago, after completing Nemesis, about a polio epidemic that struck his hometown of Newark, New Jersey in 1944.

“I didn’t say anything about it because I wanted to be sure it was true,” he told The New York Times last week.  “I thought, ‘Wait a minute, don’t announce your retirement and then come out of it.’  I’m not Frank Sinatra.  So I didn’t say anything to anyone, just to see if it was so.”

As with many people, though, his health is an issue.  He had back surgery this past April continues to heal with regular exercise.  But, he apparently feels that could have a negative impact on his writing.  “I know I’m not going to write as well as I used to.  I no longer have the stamina to endure the frustration.  Writing is frustration — it’s daily frustration, not to mention humiliation. It’s just like baseball: you fail two-thirds of the time.”

“I can’t face any more days when I write five pages and throw them away,” he added.  “I can’t do that anymore.”

Perhaps I shouldn’t be critical, since I haven’t published anything outside of this blog yet.  But, I can’t imagine retiring from writing.  Like politics, it seems to be something people can do forever.  Writing, of course, actually has a purpose.  My mother retired at age 70 from a half century in the insurance business.  My father was forcibly retired in 1994 from a printing company where he’d worked for more than 30 years.  Neither misses their jobs, even though it left both with bitter memories.  I don’t miss the engineering company that laid me off 2 years ago, in part because of the crap I had to put up with there at the end.  I don’t know anyone who’d miss, say, working at a sewage plant or a coal mine.  People may miss their coworkers or the camaraderie that comes from the friendships they develop.  But, no one really longs for the work itself.  The writing life is ideal for me.  Enjoying something while making money at it?  That’s not working!

But, Roth wants to clarify one thing.  “I do not believe the novel is dying.  I said the readership is dying out.  That’s a fact, and I’ve been saying it for 15 years.  I said the screen will kill the reader, and it has.  The movie screen in the beginning, the television screen and now the coup de grâce, the computer screen.”

In that regard, I couldn’t agree with him more.

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In Memoriam – Larry Hagman, 1931 – 2012

Actor Larry Hagman, best known for his roles on the TV series I Dream of Jeannie and Dallas died Friday morning, November 23.  He was 81.  He died after complications from throat cancer.  Born in Weatherford, Texas on September 21, 1931, Hagman was the son of actress Mary Martin who had a lengthy stage and film career.

After a stint in the U.S. Air Force, Hagman moved to New York and landed a role on the daytime drama The Edge of Night.  But, his popularity soared when he landed the role of an astronaut who discovers a genie in a bottle on I Dream of Jeannie in 1965.  Barbara Eden portrayed the genie.  Hagman rejuvenated his fame as the villainous oilman J.R. Ewing with Dallas, a prime time soap opera that premiered on CBS in 1978.

Hagman’s off-screen persona was even more eccentric.  In 1967, rock musician David Crosby turned him on to LSD, which Hagman said took away his fear of death, and Jack Nicholson introduced him to marijuana because Nicholson thought he was drinking too much.  When he first met actress Lauren Bacall, he licked her arm because he had been told she did not like to be touched and he was known for leading parades on the Malibu beach and showing up at a grocery store in a gorilla suit.  Above his Malibu home Hagman flew a flag with the statement “Vita Celebratio Est (Life Is a Celebration).”

By the 1990s, however, Hagman’s hard lifestyle caught up with him.  He developed liver cancer and cirrhosis.  He says he began drinking alcohol as a teenager and didn’t stop until 1992, when a doctor informed him he had cirrhosis.  He also claimed he drunk up to 4 bottles of champagne daily for more than a decade, including during his stint on Dallas.

In July 1995, he was diagnosed with liver cancer, which led him to quit smoking, and a month later he underwent a liver transplant.
After giving up his vices, Hagman said he did not lose his zest for life.  “It’s the same old Larry Hagman,” he told a reporter.  “He’s just a littler sober-er.”

In his later years, Hagman became an advocate for organ transplants and campaigned against smoking.  Hagman told the New York Times that, after his death, he wanted his remains to be “spread over a field and have marijuana and wheat planted and harvest it in a couple of years and then have a big marijuana cake, enough for 200 to 300 people.  People would eat a little of Larry.”

I have my own personal Larry Hagman story.  I met him and actress Linda Gray on the set of a Dallas episode in 1987.  I was an extra, appearing as a waiter in a banquet scene where a man professing to be “J.R. Ewing’s” father suddenly appeared to announced he was still alive after being presumed dead.  I held a platter of caviar, while standing near a table where Hagman and Gray were seated.  Gray asked me how long I’d been holding the platter.  “Well, they should be about ready to hatch,” I replied.  She and Hagman burst into laughter.  They were both actually very polite – and much taller than I’d imagined either to be.  That’s when I thought of being an actor, but decided writing was more important.

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Malicious Mesquite Mall Melee

Here’s yet another reason why “Black Friday” shopping is for the mentally-impaired.  A fight broke out at Town East Mall in Mesquite, Texas this morning.  What some people thought was a gunshot was actually a trash can slamming into the floor.  Stores need to invest in Xanax dispensers.  In fact, I think I just found a great business idea: I’ll drive down to México in mid-November and purchase as much Xanax as I possibly can; then, sell it to people waiting in line for “Black Friday” deals.  Oh my God!  I think I can pay off my student loans in a day!

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Black Friday Ops

I once worked with a woman who was excited at the thought of waking early on the Friday morning after Thanksgiving and going to Wal-Mart.  I told her she needed psychiatric help and lit a candle for her salvation when I got home that evening.

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When Thanksgiving Really Matters

Please keep all our military troops around the world in mind.

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In Remembrance – Officer J.D. Tippit, September 18, 1924 – November 22, 1963

While many dispute whether or not Lee Harvey Oswald shot President John F. Kennedy, there’s no doubt he shot and killed Dallas police officer J.D. Tippit on that same day near a movie theatre in the city’s Oak Cliff section.  A Texas native, Tippit served in the U.S. Army’s Seventeenth Airborne Division during World War II.  Tippit joined the Dallas police department in 1952 and had already been cited once for bravery for disarming a criminal.

A nation already traumatized by the assassination of its president donated money to Tippit’s widow, Marie, and their 3 children.  Now, the city of Dallas has finally done the right thing for Tippit and his family by honoring the officer with a historical marker.  During an official ceremony November 20, current Dallas Police Chief David Brown told those gathered that “there is no greater love than this – that a man would lay down his life for his fellow man.”

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In Remembrance – President John F. Kennedy, May 29, 1917 – November 22, 1963

As a Dallas native, I have somewhat of a personal connection to the assassination of President Kennedy.  I was 17 days old on November 22, 1963, when my mother prepared to watch her favorite soap opera, As the World Turns.  She’d become addicted to the show, while on maternity leave that long hot summer.  She cradled me in her arms, nursing me, and had just turned on the TV, when she heard a loud cacophony of sirens in the distance.  We lived in a 2-bedroom apartment above a garage behind the house belonging to my father’s oldest sister and her husband.  If you look out the bathroom window and turn to your right, you can see Harry Hines Boulevard.  My mother rushed to that window and caught the tail end of the presidential motorcade.  She didn’t know what had happened, but she had a bad feeling.  She returned to the TV and watched closely as actress Helen Wagner, in the character of Nancy, spoke to a fellow performer.  The show was live back then, broadcast directly from New York.  Then, Walter Cronkite broke in to announce that Kennedy had been shot.  It’s something my mother will never forget.  No one who was old enough back then could possibly forget something like that.  Kennedy remains one of my favorite presidents; a true American World War II hero who left a legacy of national service.

Portrait by Aaron Shikler, 1970.

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Happy Thanksgiving!

I hope everyone here in the States has a wonderful and safe holiday weekend.  And remember, Thanksgiving is all about family and friends – not about this:

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