Kim Mangone, a 2020 California congressional candidate, is sponsoring a number of billboards in Florida to counteract the state legislature’s HB 1557, Parental Rights in Education. Known colloquially as the “Don’t Say Gay” bill, its primary purpose is to eliminate discussion of sexuality in schools.
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“They’ve redefined family for the first time in a federal – in a piece of federal legislation, to include committed relationships. The problem with that is it’s really hard to define a committed relationship, and it’s really hard to define anything related to that.”
– Rep. Andy Biggs, on a radio program produced by the conservative Christian group Family Research Council.
Biggs was one of 40 lawmakers who voted against the coronavirus stimulus bill, said he did so in part because the legislation included paid sick leave benefits for domestic partnerships.
As if things couldn’t get any stranger since the election of Donald Trump, the so-called actor known as Jussie Smollett has made a sad name for himself by apparently staging an assault on himself and claiming it was a hate crime. Investigators in Chicago – where the alleged attack occurred – arrested Smollett on Thursday, the 21st, and charged him with fakery. (Fakery is essentially the same as dumbfuckery.) I’d heard of the show Empire, but I’d never heard of Smollett. I mean, who has? In the high-pressure universe of television entertainment, people are only as good as their last scandal. But, if Smollett seriously wanted to advance his career, there are a number of things he could’ve done, instead of conjuring up a hate crime scenario.
To help him – and other would-be assholes who have dared even thinking of doing the same – I’ve composed a list of things Smollett might have done to enhance his notoriety.
- Take acting lessons.
- Post nude selfies to social media.
- Get arrested with marijuana in his underwear.
- Pose for Playgirl.
- Announce he’s turned heterosexual.
- Express his support for Donald Trump.
- Rent an expensive sports car and wreck it.
- State publicly he hates queer people.
- Fake a seizure while on a plane.
- Claim he had a one-night fling with Anderson Cooper.
- Go to work part-time for Wal-Mart and say he needed the gig to supplement his income.
- Say he has 4 testicles.
- Travel to Acapulco for vacation and “disappear” for a few days.
- Get into a fight with an old woman in a wheelchair.
- Say he’s trying to find a child he thinks he fathered 20 years ago.
- Start wearing a t-shirt that says, ‘I Beat Vitiligo.’
- Visit a therapist claiming he’s a masturbation addict.
- Tell everyone he’s NOT vegan and eats gluten.
- Publicly condemn scientology.
- Say he hates Oprah Winfrey and Ellen DeGeneres.
On a more serious note, I have to confess my disdain for Smollett. I’ve known plenty of non-White people who have been victimized by hate crimes (beyond name-calling), and most of the queer people I’ve known could recount one or more harrowing tales of hate crime episodes. For Smollett to pay someone to inflict an attack on him, just for the sake of seeing his acting career skyrocket, is an offense to REAL victims of hate crimes. It may also prevent future victims from reporting these events, lest they be questioned and even mocked. You know the right-wing establishment is going to have a field day with this shit, don’t you!
Fabricating criminal behavior won’t advance anyone’s career, but it can set back the progress marginalized groups have made towards equality. The public truly doesn’t care about the notoriety of a little-known actor on a ubiquitous television show. But we do care about people who have fallen victim to hate and oppression. Smollett can now fade into the obscurity where he was already languishing. Maybe Wal-Mart will hire him.
The American sports world is all riled up again – and as usual, over nothing important. Michael Sam, a 24-year-old senior defensive lineman football player at the University of Missouri, recently announced that he’s a practicing homosexual. Sam has garnered a number of accolades for his athletic ability, including All-American Player and Southeastern Conference Defensive Player of the Year awards. But, his unapologetic admission to being gay has steered the conversation to a prospect more horrifying to many heterosexual men than erectile dysfunction and forgetting to order flowers on Valentine’s Day: there’ll be a damn queer in the locker room!
Professional sports in the U.S. is rife with unsavory characters and devious antics. Like their counterparts in the entertainment world, career athletes seem to have a penchant for nefarious behavior in the public arena. Former baseball player Darryl Strawberry had a long history of drug use, which – coupled with documented assaults on his first wife – eventually derailed his career. Key word: eventually. Despite his troubles, team owners and coaches kept giving him second chances. His high batting averages appeared to gloss over the awful reality of his self-destruction.
The late Wilt Chamberlain, a legendary figure in basketball, once claimed to have slept with over 20,000 women. His lawyer, Seymour Goldberg, declared that Chamberlain “collected women” the way some people collect stamps. His nickname, “The Big Dipper,” came about because he often had to duck his 7’1” frame downward when he entered doorways. But, the moniker obviously sported a more salacious definition when rumors of his romantic escapades began circulating in the media.
One of the most brutal stories of a professional athlete’s incorrigible behavior involves Rae Carruth, formerly of the Carolina Panthers. In November of 1999, Carruth ordered a friend to murder his then-girlfriend, Cherica Adams, who was eight months pregnant. Two years earlier Carruth had lost a paternity suit and, apparently reluctant to support yet another unwanted child, he tried convincing Adams to have an abortion. When she refused, he allegedly planned to have her beaten up so she’d miscarry. After that failed, he went further and set up the hit. The two met for a date at a movie theatre. They left in separate cars, with Adams following Carruth. Another vehicle drove up beside Adams, and a man later identified as a friend of Carruth fired four shots. Adams crashed and, despite her injuries, managed to dial 911 from her cell phone. Doctors were able to save the 8-month-old male fetus. Adams later scribbled notes for police officials describing the sequence of events and clearly implicated Carruth in the crime. Carruth had told investigators he’d turn himself into police if Adams died. When she finally succumbed to her injuries a month later, Carruth fled. Fortunately, he was caught and convicted of murder in 2000, along with his three accomplices. But, from the start, sports writers and Carruth fan were willing to give Carruth the benefit of the doubt.
In December 2012, Josh Brent, a Dallas Cowboys player, was involved in a drunk driving wreck that killed his fellow teammate and best friend, Jerry Brown. The two had patronized a strip club and consumed large amounts of alcohol, when Brent lost control of his Mercedes. Police officers arriving at the scene found Brent trying to pull Brown from the fiery crash. A blood-alcohol test on Brent measured 0.18, more than twice the legal limit in Texas. Brent’s defense attorneys tried to claim that his 320-pound frame could handle that much booze, which was roughly equal to 17 mixed drinks. Amidst such trauma, however, Dallas Cowboys owner Jerry Jones refused to terminate Brent’s contract until after the trial. But, the ultimate shame in this tragedy came when Judge Robert Burns announced Brent’s sentence – 180 days in jail and 10 years’ probation.
There are countless other stories of professional athletes abusing their wives or girlfriends; committing sexual assault; driving drunk; beating up friends and neighbors; and / or using illegal narcotics. But, if you listen to the rhetoric over Michael Sam, you’d think his sexuality was as criminal as those of the aforementioned athletes. In professional sports, it’s apparently okay for a man to beat the crap out of his wife. In fact, many people just seem to want to shove that under the rug of illicit behavior.
But, said athlete admits that he’s gay? Well, suddenly he’s crossed the line. We can’t have that. We can’t have any fags in the shower. The same argument has been used before in the U.S. military. It was a basis for the compromise over the pathetic “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy enacted in 1994. Until it was repealed in 2011, more people were booted out of the military for being gay or lesbian than for being fat.
In the narrow minds of bigotry, some transgressions are inexcusable. Homosexuality is among them. Unless Michael Sam has forced someone into a sexually compromising position (and that’s almost always an accusation, especially towards gay men), people should focus more on his athletic abilities and his difficult upbringing than his sexual predilections. He lost one brother to gun violence; another brother has been missing since 1998; and two more of his brothers are imprisoned. At one point, he and his mother lived in her car. Sam is the first member of his family to attend college. It’s unlikely he decided to pursue a football career so he can scope out guys in the locker room. Anyone who visits a locker room (or public restroom, for that matter) to pick up dates needs to get their ass kicked anyway.
Here’s another thing: men look at one another’s genitalia in the locker room. Every man does; if he denies it, he’s either lying, or he’s dead. It’s not a stare, or a gape; it’s just a casual glance to see if they measure up. Every man is concerned about his penis size at some point in his life. And, every woman is just as concerned about her butt and hip size during some internal squabble with her internal self. We humans all just want to be – and look – normal. Being gay or lesbian doesn’t cross the invisible line – but, staring does. And, that’s just not going to happen very often.
Personally, I’m not a football fan, so I’d never heard of Michael Sam until this faux issue arose. And, I certainly don’t plan to follow his career should be become the first openly-gay professional player in American football history. I have more important concerns. So should everyone else.
Local Dallas / Fort Worth sports anchor Dale Hansen tells it like it is.
Pinal County Sheriff Paul Babeu speaks at a news conference, Feb. 18, 2012 in Florence, Ariz. (Deirdre Hamill, AP Photo/The Arizona Republic)
Sheriff Paul Babeau of Pinal County, Arizona, has resigned as co-chairman of the Mitt Romney, after admitting he was involved in a relationship with an illegal Mexican immigrant man who claims Babeau threatened to have him deported, if he revealed the true nature of their affiliation. Somebody didn’t get a Valentine’s Day gift! Babeau built a staunchly conservative reputation by taking a tough stance against illegal immigration; appearing with Sen. John McCain in a television commercial for McCain’s 2010 re-election campaign about the “danged fence;” and attacking President Obama on the immigration issue. Babeau is running for the GOP nomination in Arizona’s 4th Congressional District this year. In a press conference on Saturday, the 18th, Babeau admitted his homosexuality and avoided commenting directly about the allegations made by his supposed ex-lover. He also insists he’s staying in the congressional race against incumbent Paul Gosar. Not surprisingly, reporters at the press conference wanted to know more about Babeau’s relationship with the man he refers to only as “José,” instead of more important issues, like say, border security. This is typical grease for the political sludge machine, with yet another conservative Republican forced out of the gay closet; most likely by the opposition. As more and more of these sex scandals arise, no one really cares – or at least they shouldn’t. I don’t know about the “danged fence,” but those danged queers are everywhere!